I'm gonna be the one who goes ahead and says it.
NOBODY likes a baby mama who is only good for stirring up drama.
The one thing everyone hates MORE than baby mama drama?
Is women who go around saying they are pregnant from a man they've dated or slept with for about 5 minutes, or women who say they are pregnant from a celebrity, particularly when there's a slim chance in hell that their alleged baby daddy would ever touch them with a ten foot pole, much less their penis.
In the case of Justin Bieber, I'm pretty sure there's only one woman everyone in America hates more than Casey Anthony, and that would be Mariah Yeater, the woman who is accusing the Biebs of knocking her up. Since Justin does not have any big sisters to run to his defense, I feel morally obligated to set Mariah Yeater straight.
An Open Letter to Mariah Yeater (from the desk of LC):
I'm not quite sure what was going on upstairs in that little brain of yours, to cause you to not only accuse a celebrity of having sex with you, but also to say that he impregnated you, and I'm even MORE confused why you would want to sell your soul just to get the tabloids talking about you, your reputation, and compromise all of your dignity and morals in the name of getting your 15 minutes of fame. Perhaps you have major daddy issues, or maybe you just needed some attention, or, judging by your clothing choices and your bad hair, maybe some boy from your trailer park who is your REAL baby daddy just lost his job at the local gas station, and he no longer seems like the kinda guy who is gonna pay you a dime in child support. Regardless of what mental health issues you may have, let me be the one to let you know, it is NEVER okay to not only accuse a man of getting you pregnant, but also use that impending pregnancy as a ploy for keeping him by your side, so you don't lose him.
Pregnancy has a way of causing a LOT of drama and complications, and nothing puts a man off of sex like pregnancy, so if you think that is going to be your way of getting him to run to your side, it's not going to work, honey. It also has a way of requiring the woman carrying the child to buck up and start acting like a grown up, instead of like an irresponsible little girl. You are not stable enough to have anyone's child--but you're really not responsible enough to be a mom to your illegitimate baby. And you also don't deserve a drop of money from the tabloids or media shows, and you absolutely don't deserve to be in the spotlight just because you are ruining what's left of the teen years of a young celebrity who worked for his stardom.
In case it slipped your mind, Justin Bieber is a CHILD. Accusing J Biebs of fathering your child, is not only wrong, it's only proving that you have no kind of mental stability. Who wants to compromise their entire life and possibly serve jail time just so that they can make a quick buck. That is going to not only follow YOU forever--it's going to haunt your child's life forever, too.
You are just another example of one of the unfortunate women in our society who are selfish, unclassy, and who have no morals or sense of judgment. And it's time that more women who are older than you are, step up and have the guts to tell you like it is, instead of laughing about your condition or the mistakes you are making, and saying, "Well, thank God she isn't MY kid," or "Thank goodness that's not MY sister." Somewhere along the way, someone needed to give you attention long enough to teach you right from wrong--if it didn't happen at home, then the rest of us need to set you straight instead of letting you ruin other people's lives.
This is a young man who worked hard for what he has now, and has a mother who gave him life despite the fact that she was a teen mom. He is dating a young woman, Selena Gomez, who also worked for her celeb status, and she, too, is the daughter of teen parents. Regardless of the obstacles they had to overcome to get their children where they are today, those parents did not compromise their dignity or the lives of other people, in an attempt to get money out of someone who was innocent. I highly doubt Justin or Selena's mothers went around accusing other people of getting them pregnant. They took responsibility and raised their children the best they could.
Now it's your turn. The first step to overcoming any problem, is to admit you have one.
Selling your story to the tabloids, making a teenage boy take a DNA test, and risking the future and sanity of your innocent child is not taking you on the path towards overcoming any problems you have. It's setting you, and your baby, on the path towards a life of issues--only because of the lies you've told.
In our society, it's hard to find parents and families who we can look up to. It's even harder to find young women who are willing to grow up and assume responsibility for their actions, and think of someone other than themselves. If you never had someone in YOUR life who was like that, at least have the integrity to be that type of person for YOUR child.
There are already too many kids born to people who aren't mentally or emotionally stable enough to offer any kind of a decent life to their children. Since you've clearly had a big plate of crazy for dinner the last 19 years of your life, I think you should consider your actions and how they affect others--and all the other young girls out there who are using pregnancy as a means for "keeping their guy on lock" or "getting the guy" that they want--need to do the same.
Good Luck to Ya,
LC
PS--As a fellow Latina, I really think Selena should kick your ass, & I'd be more than happy to help her, since you are over 18, after all.
PPS--I hope you look good in autumn colors, because you'll be wearing an orange jumpsuit in no time, after the Biebs' legal team takes care of your crazy ass.
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